"The red" the hero's name is in even, her first lover is Mrs DE rainer, a second lover is miss mathilde. Theory of status, the identity of the two harmonized appearances of people was significantly higher than him. So, one of my friends is so describe "the red" to me, this is a story of men against women climb.

　　I don't think Yu Lianyou love, at least until the end, is never seen, the existence of love is a kind of noble, some people say that love is to protect a person, with the standards, obviously, the two affairs cannot be counted as love. Rainer lady fell in love with in the original, but to even want from Mrs DE rainer, just a kind of identity, status to improve the satisfaction and to conquer a better than they are objects of desire, and this is a period of an affair, so even if reluctantly said, at last the moment he sank in madame DE rainer of love, but because of the wrong start, so finally it's hard to die well. Besides, he should because Mrs Think DE rainer damaged his and miss mathilde better future, just want to kill DE rainer, madam, it is conceivable that he just want to from beginning to end his own ambitions, not really into the love. For miss mathilde, he wanted to be with miss mathilde is completely was swept away by mathilde external initial originates from one kind of flesh, then mood, a kind of the more can't get more want to torture him. Mathilde had just put in even as a fantasy, mathilde hopes to repeat her worship of a romance, it is not love, at last she kissed in the death of the man's head, also be realize her wish.

　　I don't like the story of the red, only to see the truth in this story is that Mrs DE rainer for even the relationships we have, but because Mrs DE rainer's identity, have never been in love, so when she hadn't really learn to analysis, fell in love with to connect. Of course, have to say, if after you fall in love with is analyzed, can be rational to treat may, it is not pure love.

　　To even this ambition to insist, perhaps many also struggle at the grassroots level, we not rich "relationship", part of the worth learning. But his selfishness, the excess and lost "sincere" that, absolutely is that we should abandon the part. We should learn to use the right way to realize their dreams.

　　《紅與黑》的男主人公叫于連，她的第一個(gè)情人是德萊納夫人，第二個(gè)情人是馬蒂爾德小姐。論身份地位來(lái)說(shuō)，兩任情人的身份都遠(yuǎn)遠(yuǎn)高于他。所以，我一個(gè)朋友是這樣對(duì)我描述《紅與黑》的，這就是一個(gè)男人靠著女人往上爬的故事。

　　我不認(rèn)為于連有過(guò)愛(ài)情，至少直到結(jié)尾，也不曾見(jiàn)到過(guò)，愛(ài)情是一種高貴的存在，有人說(shuō)，愛(ài)情是去守護(hù)一個(gè)人，用這個(gè)標(biāo)準(zhǔn)來(lái)說(shuō)，顯然，那兩段情史都不能算作愛(ài)情。德萊納夫人愛(ài)上了于連原本的樣子，可是于連從德萊納夫人身上想得到的只是一種身份，地位提高的滿足感和征服一個(gè)比自己強(qiáng)的對(duì)象的征服欲，而且這是一段婚外情，所以哪怕勉強(qiáng)地說(shuō)，最后那一刻他沉入了對(duì)德萊納夫人的愛(ài)情，但是因?yàn)殄e(cuò)誤的開(kāi)始，所以最后很難善終。況且，他竟然因?yàn)檎J(rèn)為德萊納夫人破壞了他和馬蒂爾德小姐美好的未來(lái)，就想要?dú)⒘说氯R納夫人，可想而知，他從頭到尾只想著自己的野心，并沒(méi)有真正的投入到愛(ài)情中去。對(duì)于馬蒂爾德小姐，他之所以想和馬蒂爾德小姐在一起完全是被馬蒂爾德的外在迷住了，初始來(lái)源于一種肉欲，后來(lái)一種越是得不到越想要的心情，狠狠地折磨了他。馬蒂爾德只是把于連當(dāng)作了一種幻想，馬蒂爾德希望重復(fù)她崇拜的一段浪漫史，那也不是愛(ài)情，最后她親吻了于連的死人頭，也算是實(shí)現(xiàn)了她的愿望吧。

　　我不喜歡紅與黑的故事，這個(gè)故事里唯一看到真情的就是，德萊納夫人對(duì)于連的那份感情，可是由于德萊納夫人的身份，還有從來(lái)沒(méi)有陷入過(guò)愛(ài)情中，所以在她還沒(méi)有真正的學(xué)會(huì)分析人的時(shí)候，就愛(ài)上了于連。當(dāng)然，不得不說(shuō)，如果分析了之后再愛(ài)上，能夠被那么理智的對(duì)待的也許就不是純真的愛(ài)情了。

　　于連這種對(duì)于野心的堅(jiān)持，也許是不少還奮斗在基層，沒(méi)有有錢人家的“關(guān)系”的我們，值得學(xué)習(xí)的一部分。但是他這種過(guò)度的自私，還有失去了“真心”這一點(diǎn)，絕對(duì)是我們應(yīng)該摒棄的部分。我們應(yīng)該學(xué)會(huì)用正確的方式實(shí)現(xiàn)自己的夢(mèng)想。